Friday, May 30, 2008

Have Baby, Will Travel -- THE RIVIERA MAYA INVITES YOUR FAMILY!

THE RIVIERA MAYA INVITES YOUR FAMILY!

Children Welcome On Mexico’s Caribbean Coast…


There’s been a bunch of newspaper and magazine articles lately discussing what’s perceived as “affluent, affected parents”. My quotes are from a recent Globe & Mail article by Siri Agrell entitled Leave The Kids At Home! - note the exclamation point instead of a question mark. Ms. Agrell suggests that stamps in children’s passports are merely status symbols for the aforementioned “affluent, affected parents”, and even quotes the godfather of travel guidebooks, Arthur Frommer, as questioning how children or parents benefit from family travel.

As someone who loved travel before having a baby, I created Have Baby Will Travel as much for myself as well as for other parents seeking information on how to continue traveling once Junior came along. In spite of the fact that she’ll remember very little, it’s my belief that our journeys to other places have instilled in our daughter a certain adaptability, as well as an appreciation for new places and faces, languages and food. Not only that, our family vacations have allowed us to spend precious, uninterrupted time together, away from our busy day-to-day life.


While I was still feeling ever-so-slightly defensive about my choices, an invitation appeared in my inbox from the Riviera Maya Tourism Board, to visit the area and experience what it has to offer families. I jumped at the chance!


Having previously enjoyed the Riviera Maya as both a single gal and a honeymooner, I was excited to learn more about the area’s family friendly accommodations, amenities and activities. This was my first time away from my daughter, but that’s another article altogether! It was a jam-packed 3 days, and traveling solo allowed me to concentrate without constantly being on toddler-alert. The other writers on the trip had brought their children, ranging in age from 6-13, so witnessing their experiences gave me good perspective as well.


The Riviera Maya starts in Puerto Morelos and ends just past Tulum – with most accommodations and attractions falling within a 20-90min drive from Cancun’s airport. Due to strict building codes and the need to preserve the area’s environment, there are no highrise hotels or thumping discos on the beach.


We visited three different all-inclusive hotels, all differing in size and style but offering kids’ clubs and family amenities such as high chairs, change tables in common areas, cribs or playpens and the availability of private babysitting. Our host hotel was the Blue Bay Grand Esmeralda, a large resort about halfway between Cancun and Playa Del Carmen. At almost 1000 rooms and covering 180 acres, the resort is great for strolling with fussy babies but may pose a problem for those with mobility issues. You can arrange for golf carts to drive you to and fro, but walking made me feel like I was getting some exercise! The rooms are spacious, modern, and clean – upgrade to a suite and you’ll have either a private pool or Jacuzzi on your balcony – great for relaxing by during baby’s afternoon nap. The food is decent, with your usual buffets and a la carte restaurants that require reservations. The pool area is large, with an area that is shallow for little ones to play. The beach is lovely to look at but die-hard beach people may be disappointed by the squishiness and rocks that made frolicking in the sea a little difficult. Their kids’ club area is shaded, with a small climber and shallow pool, along with air-conditioned rooms that feature video games and crafts in one, and new cribs and change tables in the other. The kids’ club is included with your stay, available for children aged 2-12, and toddlers need not be toilet-trained to stay there.


We visited 2 other hotels during our trip, Dreams Tulum and Azul Beach. Dreams Tulum is a medium-sized resort roughly 30 minutes south of Playa Del Carmen. The almost 400 rooms and suites are spacious and modern, and offer conveniences such as a DVD/CD player and an MP3 docking alarm clock. Their “Explorer Club” is for children aged 3-12, offers different activities each day, and their friendly staff is all CPR-certified and trained in first-aid. One thing I found strange was that parents are not allowed to remain in the area once their kids are signed in and younger children and their parents aren’t able to utilize the play structures within the “Explorer Club” compound. But the kids all seemed to be having a great time and further on during our tour of the resort I was delighted to see more toddlers than I could count enjoying the beautiful beach, pools and gardens. We stayed for dinner and the main buffet was quite good, with a small area for little ones to help themselves. Dreams Tulum’s a la carte restaurants do not require reservations, but they advise that there may be a wait for a table during peak times.


Azul Beach is a boutique hotel of only 97 rooms just outside Puerto Morelos, a mere 15 minutes from the airport in Cancun. This small resort was the most expensive of the 3, but its luxury was in no way pretentious or intimidating. The rooms were no fancier than Blue Bay’s or Dreams Tulum’s, but the intimate surroundings and baby-welcoming touches would ensure a great time for even the tiniest visitors -and their parents! Free of charge, those traveling with infants are provided with a package including a stroller, playpen, change table/baby bath, bottle warmer and sterilizer, and baby monitor. They provide Mexican Gerber brand baby food, and the smoothie bar will prepare and puree fresh fruit and yogurt for your tiny tot. The only time that a buffet is an option is at breakfast, but the menus for all meals are extensive – even offering specialty meals for those following The South Beach Diet. None of the restaurants require reservations, so you can come and go as you please. The stunning beach is lined with beach beds and a couple of play structures, and there are ‘beach butlers’ at your beck and call for whatever you may need – a drink, a snack, sunscreen, you name it. The kids’ club is for children aged 4-12, and each day there are activities such as cooking classes, Spanish lessons and jewelry making.


If an all-inclusive resort is not your thing, there are a number of self-catering options throughout the region, and Playa Del Carmen is home to a couple of large supermarkets – a Sam’s Club and the Mexican chain Mega are located on the main highway that runs between Cancun and Tulum. In terms of getting around, public transport seemed fairly easy to navigate, car rental is plentiful (although rumour has it the better rates are found in Cancun), and the taxis are all newer, with functioning seat belts. If your child is still in a car seat, you may be best off bringing yours along, although I did come across a company online called Cancun Valet that offers rentals along with their transfer services to various parts of the region.


With this being my 3rd trip to the area, I was able to recall why I liked it enough the first time to return for my honeymoon. It’s kind of like the best of both worlds – the beauty of Caribbean beaches with the charm and flavour of Mexico. The Mayan influence is prevalent, and learning more about that ancient culture enriched my experience. The Riviera Maya has grown tremendously in the 10 years since I first visited, but now as a parent, I can appreciate how the growth and development has made visiting there a lot easier. In a future article, I’ll detail a few of the attractions and excursions available that are suitable for families: the natural aquarium Xel-Ha, X-Caret, the eco-archeological theme park, and the jungle crossing tour we took with All-Tournative Off-Track Adventures.


Corinne McDermott is the founder of Have Baby Will Travel - your online guide to traveling with babies and toddlers. For more information please visit www.havebabywilltravel.com or send a message to info@havebabywilltravel.com.


Thursday, May 29, 2008

Fun Father's Day Ideas


Our friends at Playhouse Disney Canada have passed on some great ideas for a fun and memorable Father's Day. Check out their website where you can check out a really great show for your preschooler. As well, Canada Playhouse Disney channel will be airing a “Handy Manny” marathon on Father’s Day!


Fun Father's Day Gift Ideas from
Disney Channel's Handy Manny!

Kids' favourite fix-it-guy, Playhouse Disney's Handy Manny, offers some fun "green" gift ideas for Father's Day! With Mom's help, kids can repurpose things found around the house and turn them into new treasures for Dad.

1. Gifts that Keep on Growing: Plant beets, carrots and summer squash, or basil, rosemary and oregano, which Dad can use for his famous summer barbeques! Teaching kids how to tend a vegetable or herb garden is a great gift that keeps giving all summer long, and educates them on how to care for the earth around them. Another idea – on Father's Day, have the whole family plant a tree in the backyard. Kids can watch the tree grow as they grow; plus, you'll reduce your family's carbon footprint.

2. Frames Refurbished: Find an old picture frame in the garage or basement and customize it so it's better than new! Decorate with old magazine or newspaper clippings, construction paper, paint, stickers, beads, feathers, or anything else you find around the house. Then, put in a family picture or a youngster's drawing for Dad to display at home or in the office!

3. Hi-Tech Entertainment: Go paperless with modern tools to create gifts Dad will cherish forever! Instead of buying a CD, make a personalized playlist for Dad's iPod or MP3 player. Or, scan photos, artwork and funny stories onto the computer for a special slideshow presentation titled "Why I Love My Dad."

4. Designer T-Shirts: Take one of Dad's plain old t-shirts and redesign it! Choose brightly colored fabric paint that kids can use to create a unique design of their own, or teach them how to make the emblem for Dad's favorite sports team! Little handprints make a great memory too!

5. Mr. Fix-it's Funhouse: Surprise Dad with a beautifully organized tool shed or garage! Ask kids to group Dad's tools and equipment in corners of the room (make sure to keep tools that aren't suitable for little hands up high and out of reach), then use colorful labels and recycled boxes to keep things in order. Any old tools can be given away, or used to start a son or daughter's very own toolbox!


Thursday, May 8, 2008

Ways to Reduce your Grocery Bills

Ways to Reduce your Grocery Bills
By: Christine Steendahl

Are you searching for a great way to save money on your groceries? A Menu Planning Service can come to the rescue. These innovative services help you plan, save on grocery costs and organize your dinner meals simply and easily.

Menu Planning services provide moms with a simple to follow dinner menu for every week. Not only do you get great dinner meal ideas including main dishes, side dishes and desserts that are satisfying, simple to make and healthy, but you also get a tailored grocery list to simply shop for the ingredients for the upcoming week. You can save tons of moola, because when shop for only what you will be cooking and what ingredients you will need you won’t needlessly buy ingredients and items that are not required.

Many people waste hundreds of dollars each year buying food items that aren't needed. Many times foods are wasted, because they sit around not being used in any meals you make. When you find a meal idea for these items, they are usually too old, spoiled or stale.

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By using a menu planning service you will also save on fast food and casual dining restaurant bills. Many families become frustrated when there is no food in their refrigerator. Instead of cooking a healthy and low cost meal at home, they opt for the ease of visiting fast food and casual dining establishments that can easily run $20, $50, $100 or more. If you are searching for a reason to keep you at home instead of at high priced dining establishments, a meal planning service is an affordable and efficient solution.

Another way you can derive the benefits from menu planning is with all the time you will save. Now that everything is mapped out for you, you won’t have to spend time each day running to and from the grocery store to buy needed food items, you can have your whole week's meals mapped out and have a cozy and restful time at home with your family.

If you are searching for an excellent a surefire way to save on your groceries, check out a menu planning service.

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Friday, May 2, 2008

Amanda's Book Nook: The Lazy Husband: How to Get Men to Do More Parenting and Housework by Joshua Coleman

Volume 18: Book Review: The Lazy Husband: How to Get Men to Do More Parenting and Housework by Joshua Coleman

The Lazy Husband, written in 2005 by Joshua Coleman, PH.D, a husband and a father, is a must read for any woman who feels that she has too much of a domestic workload and not enough support from her husband.

Coleman uses examples of conflict between various couples. He explains the situation well and also describes how a wife might go about solving the problem, using specific dialogue examples.

The differences that cause conflict between men and women have been known for a long time, think Men are from Mars, Women Are From Venus. This book is written as a tool for women to better understand how to change the domestic responsibilities in their home. It is written by a man, who offers many personal examples in order to assist women get to the root of their problems. Included in this book is one chapter for the husband to read. It is definitely written man to man.

After reading this book, I have a much better appreciation for my husband. Don't get me wrong, I truly appreciated him before, but I have an understanding (as small as it may be) that it is difficult to be a husband too. Women have issues that are difficult for men to deal with too. Women's issues are just different than men's. It's how we deal with our issues with one another that matters. One critical word or parental "over ride" can make or break a situation.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Spring & Summer Safety

Water safety: a significant summer concern

Excerpted from the AboutKidsHealth website. AboutKidsHealth provides trusted answers from The Hospital for Sick Children for families' health questions.




"As the hot summer sun beats down, for many parents and children thoughts turn to the cooling relief of swimming pools and lakes. While a refreshing dip may be just the ticket, now is a good time to consider safety issues when it comes to children and water, both at home and further afield.

Each year, more than 100 children and youth in Canada drown and many more have close calls. It seems that a new drowning tragedy is reported almost every week. The most common situations for drowning are boating, recreational, and bathtub drowning. Children under five are more likely to drown or nearly drown than any other age group, followed by children aged five to nine years old. Among toddlers, drowning accounts for more than 20% of injury-related deaths and is the second major cause of death through injury.

"You always need to supervise your child when he or she is in or near water. Drowning can happen in seconds, in the time it takes you to answer a phone,” says Laveena Sethia, an injury prevention information specialist with Safe Kids Canada, the national injury prevention program of the Hospital for Sick Children.

This means you must stay close enough to touch your child when in the bath tub, home swimming pool, public pool, or lake. Supervision is the best way to prevent drowning.
Backyard swimming pools

Parents should make sure there is a fence that completely surrounds the backyard swimming pool on all four sides. The fence needs to be 1.2 metres (4 feet) high and have a self-latching gate. Check with your municipality to make sure that your pool follows local by-laws for backyard swimming pools.

Some people have a fence on three sides and consider the house to be the fourth side. But in this case, “you’re protecting the neighbourhood kids and not your own,” says Sethia, since a child can exit the house through sliding doors and directly enter the pool unsupervised. If any door in the house leads directly to the pool, make sure the door closes by itself and has a lock high up on the door that a child cannot reach and open.

Keep these pool safety tips in mind:

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Always have an adult watching children in the pool, preferably one who knows cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) and lifesaving techniques.
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Enroll children in swimming and water safety lessons when they are at least 4 years old. Water safety programs for adults and younger children are also available.
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Taking swimming lessons does not ensure that a child will not drown. You still need to watch your child closely in and around water.
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Children can drown in seconds; don't turn away to answer the phone or concentrate on something else. Don't assume that a child in trouble will be able to make noise to alert you.
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Make sure lifesaving and first aid equipment is close to the pool. Keep emergency phone numbers nearby.
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Children under the age of 3 or children who cannot swim must wear personal flotation devices (PFDs). Be sure that the PFD is a Canadian-approved device and that all parts of the PFD are in good condition. Users of inflatable PFDs should follow manufacturer’s instructions so they can help their children use them correctly. Remember that air-filled toys, water wings, and air mattresses are not a substitute for a PFD.
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Always check the pool first if a child is missing.

Lakes and rivers

Because lakes and rivers aren't fenced in, it's even more important to watch children closely when at the cottage or the beach. Remember these safety tips:

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Give your children your full attention. Make sure children know that they must always tell an adult before they go swimming.
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Children under the age of 3 or children who cannot swim should always be wearing a PFD in or around water.
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Put children on the buddy system so that if one is in trouble, the other can call for help.
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Make sure children swim close to shore. They should be able to see you at all times.
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Teach young children how to swim or play within arm's reach.
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Swim at supervised waterfronts and beaches.
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Choose a safe place to swim. Check for hazards on the beach and in the water, including water pollution levels.
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Watch for boats and jet skis while swimming.

Boating

By law, boaters must have appropriately sized PFDs for each person aboard the boat, though they do not have to be worn. Pay special attention to your children’s PFDs, advises the Canadian Safe Boating Council. These should be selected by size and weight, and have collars to keep their heads up in the water, a handle on the collar to lift them, and a safety strap so the PFD does not slide up over their head. Test the PFD first in a pool to make sure it works and fits properly.

PFDs are not made for children under age 1 (or 9 kg). For children under 1, Safe Kids recommends finding an alternate land route to the destination, finding a sitter for the child, or simply not making water trips until the child is older.

Here are some boating tips:

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Don’t rock the boat. Move slowly when you enter the boat because it could tip over, or tip you out, if you are not careful.
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Children should always wear a PFD when boating.
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Children should keep their arms, legs, and head inside the boat at all times.
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A designated adult should be able to see the child at all times to make sure the child does not fall into the water, which may be too deep or rocky.
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If sleeping on board the boat, make sure young children cannot open a door or window and get outside unsupervised. A two-year-old girl in British Columbia drowned recently after opening a screen door on a houseboat and sliding into the water.

Bath tubs

At home, drowning in the bath tub is not uncommon. Very young children do not have the motor skills to lift their heads above water or get themselves out of the water. "They can drown in water that is just two inches deep," says Sethia. Parents may momentarily turn their backs or rely on a sibling to watch an infant.
Bath Seat

Lock the door to the bathroom to prevent a child from getting into dangerous situations in the bathroom. They may attempt to run a bath on their own in the same way they have seen a parent do it.

Many parents like to use bathing aids such as bath seats or rings to free up their hands to wash their baby. These plastic seats use suction cups to attach to the bottom of the tub, and are designed to secure an infant who is approximately seven months of age (around the time the child can sit upright unassisted). A recent survey found that 46% of parents in Canada use or have used bath seats.

Safe Kids Canada advises against using bath seats because babies have been known to slide out of the seats or the suction cups can come loose and the baby may topple over. The seats also give parents a false sense of security and they may leave the child unattended momentarily. Children in the tub should be within arm’s reach at all times and should not be left alone even for a second.

"Bath tubs aren’t the only water-based hazard in the home; buckets of water, wading pools, and even washing machines put curious toddlers at risk of drowning also," explains Sethia. Drain wading pools and buckets after use.
Facts about children and water safety

According to the Canadian Red Cross and the Canadian Institute for Health Information:

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Drowning is one of the leading causes of death for Canadian children aged one to five.
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On average, an estimated 500 people in Canada drown every year.
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Children under five are involved in more drowning or near-drowning incidents than those in any other age group.
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For every child who dies from drowning, it is estimated there are six to 10 additional near-drownings, which require hospitalization.
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One in four children in Ontario who experience near-drowning have permanent brain damage as a result.
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Most drowning incidents do not involve swimming: 76% of children who drowned or nearly drowned in 2002-2003 were playing or walking near water.
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In nearly half of infant and toddler drownings, the victims were alone.
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A small child can drown in only a few inches of water — enough to cover the mouth and nose.
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The most common location for infant drownings is the bathtub.
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Home swimming pools account for 38% of toddler drownings.
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Since 1991, only 4% of reported toddler drownings were in pools with self-closing and self-latching gates.
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If all home pools were equipped with self-closing and self-latching gates, nearly all toddler pool drownings and about one-third of all toddler drownings could be eliminated.

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Moms deserve cute stuff!

Moms are amazing. On duty 24/7, it's hard to take time for anyone but the kids. Make the constant, tedious and downright stinky job of diaper changing a dare-we-say "fun" activity ... with an ultra stylish Made by Angie baby wipe container.

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Happy Mother's Day!


PS. Here are a few of my our favourite patterns:

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Sunday, April 6, 2008

Upcoming Car Seat Clinics & News on Car Seats

Parents need more education on car and booster seat safety, advise paediatricians

OTTAWA― Doctors should help educate parents on the proper use of infant and child car seats, says the Canadian Paediatric Society (CPS) in a new statement.

The position statement, published this week in Paediatrics & Child Health, provides detailed recommendations for selecting, positioning, installing and using car and booster seats. Every year, more than 2,500 children between the ages of 1 and 4 years are injured or killed in car collisions in Canada.

"Too many young Canadian children are injured in collisions, when the majority of these injuries can be avoided by proper use of car and booster seats," said Dr. Lynne Warda, chair of the CPS Injury Prevention Committee.

In Canada, 44 to 81 per cent of car seats and 30 to 50 per cent of booster seats are not used properly. When these seats are used properly they can reduce the risk of fatal injury by up to 71 per cent.

"Parents need to be more aware of how to choose, install and use car seats properly, and doctors should be able to provide this guidance," said Dr. Charmaine van Schaik, a community paediatrician in Aurora, Ont., and author of the CPS statement.

The top three mistakes parents make when using car seats are: not properly securing the seat to the vehicle, not attaching the harness snugly enough, and not positioning the chest clip at the child’s armpit level.


To help protect children, the CPS is calling on all provincial and territorial governments to implement booster seat legislation across Canada. Legislation already exists in a number of jurisdictions but not all provinces and territories. The CPS also supports sales tax exemptions for car seat and booster seats.

The Canadian Paediatric Society is a national advocacy association that promotes the health needs of children and youth. Founded in 1922, the CPS represents more than 2,500 paediatricians, paediatric subspecialists and other child health professionals across Canada. Paediatrics & Child Health is the peer-reviewed journal of the CPS.

To receive a copy of the full statement, please e-mail media@cps.ca.

Media inquiries:
Jennifer Lefebvre
Canadian Paediatric Society
613-526-9397, ext. 247
media@cps.ca


For 3 upcoming car seat clincs in York Region in April please see here.....