Book Review: The Lazy Husband

Book Review: The Lazy Husband: How to Get Men to Do More Parenting and Housework by Joshua Coleman

The Lazy Husband, written in 2005 by Joshua Coleman, PH.D, a husband and a father, is a must read for any woman who feels that she has too much of a domestic workload and not enough support from her husband.

Coleman uses examples of conflict between various couples. He explains the situation well and also describes how a wife might go about solving the problem, using specific dialogue examples.

The differences that cause conflict between men and women have been known for a long time, think Men are from Mars, Women Are From Venus. This book is written as a tool for women to better understand how to change the domestic responsibilities in their home. It is written by a man, who offers many personal examples in order to assist women get to the root of their problems. Included in this book is one chapter for the husband to read. It is definitely written man to man.

After reading this book, I have a much better appreciation for my husband. Don't get me wrong, I truly appreciated him before, but I have an understanding (as small as it may be) that it is difficult to be a husband too. Women have issues that are difficult for men to deal with too. Women's issues are just different than men's. It's how we deal with our issues with one another that matters. One critical word or parental "over ride" can make or break a situation.

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The Green House:Phthalates: It’s Safety and Use in Bath & Body Products

Phthalates: It’s Safety and Use in Bath & Body Products

by Kathleen Hogg

Recently the CBC profiled a controversial study released regarding Phthalates in personal care products (shampoo, soaps, nail polish and lotions). Specifically, mentioning the release of Phthalates in urine of infants who had used baby care products containing Phthalates. So, in our commitment in providing you with products that are high in quality and low in additives, we researched both sides of the argument.

First, what are Phthalates? They are used in plastics, fragrances, acrylic nail polish and some medical supplies. It is there to stabilize the fragrances and make plastic flexible. You know the “New Car Smell”, that is the release of Phthalates from the plastic in the car.

The study mentioned in the CBC (refer to www.cbc.ca and search Phthalates) was conducted by SH Swan, F. Liu, and other researchers at the University of Washington (to read the entire study please go to www.ehphonline.org and the study is titled Decrease in Anogential Distance among Male Infants with Prenatal Phthalate Exposure). The study recruited pregnant women in L.A., California, Minneapolis, Minnesota and Columbia Missouri from September 1999 to August 2002, Iowa was added late in the study. They had the women complete a questionnaire, some gave blood samples and urine collected midway through the study. Not all participants supplied all of the samples. 85% of the participants agreed to be re-contacted. These participants were eligible if they had a live birth and the baby was between 2-36 months of age. They studied the anogenital measurements (several different measurements of the genitals) of the infant boy’s in relation to the release of Phthalates in their urine. There has also been a study conducted on rats, where it has been shown that the anogenital distance is the most sensitive to Phthalates. However, it has been difficult to prove the sensitivity comparison between humans and animals. Although there was increased Phthalates in the urine of the study participants, it was difficult to determine if it ingested via dermal application (lotions, shampoos etc), orally (plastic toys, books, teething rings) or inhaled. The study revealed that “young infants are more vulnerable to the potential adverse effects of Phthalates given their increased dosage per unit body surface area, metabolic capabilities and developing endocrine and reproductive system”.

It should also be noted that Phthalates have been used for over 50 years and there has been no definitive proof that it has caused damage to the human endocrine or reproductive system. For further information on Phthalates and their safety please go to www.phthalates.org.

Currently the European Union (EU) and California have banned the use of most Phthalates in their products. The European Cosmetics Directive says that any substance known or strongly suspected to have certain health effects in laboratory animals—even if this occurs only at extremely high doses—is assumed to present similar risks to humans, and may not be used in cosmetics.

As a consumer in Canada, you will not know if you have been using Phthalates on yourself or your family, because companies that create the fragrances do not have to list the ingredients. There is a trade secret law that allows them to keep their ingredient listing, well a secret. Also, manufacturers of cosmetics in Canada do not have to list it as an ingredient, only that a fragrance is used. If it is the least percentage amount of ingredient then it is listed at the end of the ingredient listing.

One of the main commitments we have to you as our customer is to provide you with products that are mostly natural. With that in mind we took a good look at our product offering.

We contacted all the suppliers to find out if they were Phthalate free. Confirmation was received that all of the essential oils used are Phthalate free. For two of my suppliers, they were not able to give answers, so those fragrances have been discontinued. One supplier informed us the fragrances they offer, do have Diethyl Phthalate in its’ composition. The concentration is less than 0.05% of the final product offered by Bath-a-holic. This Phthalate has been extensively tested by the Scientific Committee on Cosmetic Products and Non-Food Products intended for Consumers (SCCNFP). The conclusion from this study was this particular Phthalate does not pose any risk to human health. You can read the study at www.dep-facts.com. This study was conducted on rats, mice, rabbits and humans. They tested the effects of Diethyl Phthalates on the subjects through various different methods; orally, inhalation and dermal (skin). The conclusion of the study was “DEP shows a low level of toxicity. Testing for dermal irritation and sensitization in humans as well as animals, and for photo-toxicity and photo sensitization in human volunteers, has demonstrated its safety of use. Even undiluted the effects observed were minimal or moderate” * Their final opinion on the use of Diethyl Phthalate is “The SCCNP is of the opinion that the safety profile of Diethyl-phthalate supports its use in cosmetic products at current levels. At present the SCCNFP does not recommend any specific warnings or restrictions under the currently proposed conditions of use” *. The European Union has accepted this Phthalate as safe for use.

Based on these studies and my research, the following modifications have been made. The Baby Boo fragrance which was a fan favourite has been changed, but it still smells like nice delicious powdered baby. This product does contain the Diethyl Phthalate in a concentration of less than 0.05%. I have also discontinued the Pink Sugar fragrance, as I was not able to get information whether or not it contained Phthalates. We have also discontinued the Green Apple fragrance. Should you still have any serious concerns about fragrances or essential oils being used on your family’s skin, please choose the unscented versions of our product line.

If you would like to learn more about safety and cosmetics you can also go to www.safecosmetics.org. There are many great articles there on products that you are using. Informing yourself on the use of Phthalates is very important as it is used in all sorts of everyday products.

At Bath-a-holic we are committed to providing you with high quality products that are good for your entire family. If you have any questions regarding our products, please contact us at info@Bath-a-holic.com or 416-888-4315. We have a library on each ingredient and can answer any question you may have. We also have copies of all the research mentioned in this article and are happy to provide it for you.

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*Opinion of the Scientific Committee on Cosmetic Products and Non-Food Products Intended for Consumers – concerning Diethyl Phthalate – June 4th, 2002.

CERTAIN PEAR JUICES FOR TODDLERS MAY CONTAIN ARSENIC

HEALTH HAZARD ALERT - CERTAIN PEAR JUICES FOR TODDLERS MAY CONTAIN ARSENIC OTTAWA, March 11, 2008 -

The Canadian Food Inspection Agency (CFIA) and Loblaws Inc. are warning the public not to consume certain pear juices for toddlers because these products may be contaminated with arsenic.

The following products are affected by this recall:

Product UPC Size Lot Codes
President’s Choice Organics Pear Juice from Concentrate for Toddlers 0 60383 70935 8 1 L
All Beech Nut Pear Juice from concentrate with Vitamin C added 0 523842 8 128 mL 2009 FE 02; A0384B0935

These products have been distributed across Canada. There have been no reported illnesses associated with the consumption of these products. Arsenic is a toxic heavy metal that may be carcinogenic and may pose developmental risks to children. Loblaws Inc, Brampton, Ontario, has voluntarily recalled the affected products from the marketplace.

The CFIA is monitoring the effectiveness of the recall. For more information, consumers and industry can call one of the following numbers: Loblaws Customer Relations at 1-888-495-5111; CFIA at 1-800-442-2342 / TTY 1-800-465-7735 (8:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. Eastern time, Monday to Friday). For information on receiving recalls by e-mail, or for other food safety facts, visit our web site at www.inspection.gc.ca. - 30 - Media enquiries: Garfield Balsom (English) Canadian Food Inspection Agency Food Recall and Emergency Response 613-760-4232 Linda LeBlanc (French) Canadian Food Inspection Agency Food Recall and Emergency Response 613-760-4112

La Leche League Newmarket/Aurora Group - March 2008 Meeting

Do you feel like Spring is just around the corner? March 20th is the first day of Spring and I'm certainly looking forward to it. Whether or not I see or feel signs of the weather changing, I know officially that it will soon be here.

Spring means different things to different people, or maybe where you are at this particular point in your life it has significance. The season of growth? Transforming bodies and bellies, nourishing that little one soon to be borne? Or the speed at which your little one in your arms is growing? A time of change? How quickly your little one is changing with each day that passes. Or how your family will change with the addition of a new baby soon? Any of these reasons are great reasons to come out to a La Leche League meeting.

Our next meeting is scheduled for Thursday March 13, 2008 Meeting # 1 The Advantages of Breastfeeding to Mother and Baby – Topic - Why Breastfeed Your Baby?
Please feel free to bring a friend or a nutritious nut free snack to share. Even though the topic may not be of significance to you, we always have time to discuss what you need at this time.

Mother's with their nursing babies/children are welcome. La Leche League Newmarket/Aurora Group meets at the Aurora Ontario Early Years Centre @ 40 Engelhard , Unit 1, Aurora.
For Directions to the meeting or more information please call Denise @ 905-836-4342 or e-mail @ motherdoula@rogers.com

LLLC Newmarket/Aurora Meets the second Thursday of every month at 7:30 p.m. at the Aurora Ontario Early Years Centre No registration or fee required.

Our Enrichment Meetings are the last Thursday of the month at 10:30 a.m. at the Newmarket Ontario Early Years Centre

Please make a note that our March 27th Enrichment Meeting's topic is the Benefits of Baby Wearing. Bring the sling/carrier you have to share with other's your opinion on why you like it. Or maybe try on someone else's to see if theirs is a better choice for you and your baby.
All women interested in breastfeeding are welcome to attend monthly Group meetings. Anytime is a good time to come to a La Leche League meeting; when pregnant, with a new baby or when considering weaning.

While a series of four meetings with the following topics is rotated throughout the year, the specific content varies significantly depending on the current focus and the needs of those present

Meeting 1: The Advantages of Breastfeeding to Mother and Baby
Meeting 2: Baby Arrives: The Family and the Breastfed Baby
Meeting 3: The Art of Breastfeeding and Avoiding Difficulties
Meeting 4: Nutrition and Weaning

Earth Hour

It started with a question: How can we inspire people to take action on climate change?

The answer: Ask the people of Sydney to turn off their lights for one hour.

On 31 March 2007, 2.2 million people and 2100 Sydney businesses turned off their lights for one hour - Earth Hour. This massive collective effort reduced Sydney's energy consumption by 10.2% for one hour, which is the equivalent effect of taking 48,000 cars off the road for a year.

With Sydney icons like the Harbour Bridge and Opera House turning their lights off, and unique events such as weddings by candlelight, the world took notice. Inspired by the collective effort of millions of Sydneysiders, many major global cities are joining Earth Hour in 2008, turning a symbolic event into a global movement.

For more information on Earth Hour 2008 - Visit http://www.earthhour.org